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Post by Susie Snowdrop on Nov 2, 2006 19:31:31 GMT
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Post by sweetleaf on Nov 2, 2006 19:36:42 GMT
No it doesnt make sense susie, life shouldnt be that short, and it deals some pretty vicious blows, have a good cry and see what you can do to ease her familys suffering, if youre anything like me the only way to deal with it is get busy. xx
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Post by Susie Snowdrop on Nov 2, 2006 19:38:03 GMT
Don't really feel like doing anything at the moment.just trying to take it in
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2006 19:54:15 GMT
Oh no susie Sorry to hear your news, it takes things like this to make you realise just how precious life is.
Thinking of you
Karenwl (A BIG HUG FROM ME)
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Post by isabella on Nov 2, 2006 19:58:46 GMT
Susie,That's just so awful! Sending you all my love Pam
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Post by sweetleaf on Nov 2, 2006 20:03:25 GMT
Susie I didnt mean to sound unsympathetic, I can tell you are taking it hard, theres been a few deaths in my family and I know just how it feels. Im so sorry if it felt like I was cold-hearted. No smiley or virtual hug will make you feel better, I know that . I do feel for you though. Jan
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Post by Cheerypeabrain on Nov 2, 2006 20:04:59 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss Susie. Be nice to yourself, I hope that you have someone with you to talk to...or just have some quiet time to think. Your friends will be here for you if you need us.
take care Lizx (CPB)
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Post by Susie Snowdrop on Nov 2, 2006 20:10:45 GMT
Thanks all for your kind comments..........it's her husband and her Mum that need all of the sympathy and kindness.........spare a thought for them please.
Jan, you made perfect sense the first time! I certainly don't think you're cold hearted!
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Post by isabella on Nov 2, 2006 20:12:30 GMT
I send them all my love as well PamX
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Post by owainglyndwr on Nov 2, 2006 20:52:59 GMT
Condolences to you and your friend's family Susie x
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2006 20:56:37 GMT
Hugs from me too ...
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2006 21:25:12 GMT
Sorry to hear your sad news Susie - what happened to your friend?
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Post by skarloey on Nov 2, 2006 21:36:33 GMT
Nope, doesn't make sense Susie. I lost my crew-mate to cancer on January 2nd, he would have been 50 a couple of weeks later. My condolences to you and your friends family.
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Post by Susie Snowdrop on Nov 2, 2006 21:39:23 GMT
Not really sure yet Rita, all I know is that she had some sort of internal bleed, a ruptured vein or artery................you'd think in this day and age they would have been able to save her.
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Post by Susie Snowdrop on Nov 2, 2006 21:41:50 GMT
It was in her tummy I think.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2006 21:45:18 GMT
Sincere condolences to you and the family of your friend.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2006 22:03:31 GMT
Hi Susie
It's situations like this which makes you realise how precious life is and how we should savour every moment.
Life is very fragile - live it while you can.
Love to you and thinking of your friends
Pxx
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Post by anneliesje on Nov 2, 2006 22:12:34 GMT
That is said very nice Plantaholic!
A <hug> to you Susie and I wish your friend's family a lot of strength . A.
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Post by Spruance on Nov 2, 2006 22:24:09 GMT
My deepest sympathy to you and your friend's family Susie.
I have lost two cousins this year, one aged 50 and one aged 42, so sadly I know exactly how you must be feeling right now.
Spruance
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Post by chickadeedeedee on Nov 3, 2006 2:48:47 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss, Susie. There is little to do at a time like this other than to be there for eachother. It sounds so simple but it truly means so much to share the grief and loss as well as the love you shared with your friend's family.
My sympathies to you Spruance for the loss of two cousins.
Chickadeedeedee
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Post by 4pygmies on Nov 3, 2006 6:42:24 GMT
So sorry to hear of your losses Susie and Spruance. I've lost two two very dear friends to cancer this year, both in their early 50's. We all seem to have these sadnesses to relate to. It's very hard to understand why and devastating for the families and friends. The closeness and support of those you love are the most important things in the world. Take care.
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Post by Plocket on Nov 3, 2006 8:11:27 GMT
Oh Susie. My heart goes out to you and your friend's family. Take some time out and you know we will all still be here for you when you are ready.
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Post by piggingardener on Nov 3, 2006 9:09:18 GMT
Susie
I am so sorry to hear your news. I know exactly how you must be feeling, I lost my best friend to breast cancer aged 51. We had been friends since we were 15 months old.
As the others have already said, we are here when you need us.
PG
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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2006 11:20:11 GMT
Susie and Spruance - so very sorry for your losses ... and no, it doesn't make sense. Take care of yourselves ...
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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2006 22:33:54 GMT
Hi SS - lost my friend Sat week back - but she got to 68 - totaly agree with jlottie comments above - always harder for the ones left behind - take care - PA
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