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Thinking of leaving Oct 3, 2008 21:57:17 GMT

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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2008 21:57:17 GMT

Hi all
Sorry about this but i dont think i can go on ive not got as much time as i would like and i cant always get on to post, few and far between, so im better off not posting at all.
If i do get on its not for long what point is that none.
I reply to a few posts then thats it i have to log off, when i get my own place it will be different my own pc anytime but not now, im only on as hes at work and thats not enough.
I know im being stupid, again its him thats stopping me ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
I dont want to go but what choice have i got.

Kaen xxx

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Thinking of leaving Oct 3, 2008 22:08:49 GMT

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Post by Spruance on Oct 3, 2008 22:08:49 GMT

Karen, being a member of GWD does not require you to post at all if you don't want to. We all have busy lives, and sometimes it just isn't possible to fit everything in. As with all things family must come first and we understand that your present situation means that you have very much less time to visit us here.

Just look on us as somewhere where you can drop in for a chat if you like, and don't worry about not posting. Unlike some boards I could mention your account will still be open next time you drop by.

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Deleted Posts: 0	Thinking of leaving Oct 3, 2008 22:14:51 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2008 22:14:51 GMT Thanks Spru Thats good to know i just feel as if its not worth it for what i post but i suppose once im sorted oit will be a different matter. Thanks Karen xx

Tig Admin Garden Sage Posts: 42,822	Thinking of leaving Oct 3, 2008 22:37:36 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Tig on Oct 3, 2008 22:37:36 GMT Too true Karen ... Just do what you have to do, and join us when you can x Tig
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JennyWrenn Garden Guru Posts: 19,513	Thinking of leaving Oct 4, 2008 7:20:58 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JennyWrenn on Oct 4, 2008 7:20:58 GMT Missy and I sometimes log on, in a rush, dont post, but just have a read at other posts and then log off Just keep in touch and post when you can Karen
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Thinking of leaving Oct 4, 2008 9:05:09 GMT

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Post by Weeterrier on Oct 4, 2008 9:05:09 GMT

I know how you feel Karen. I haven't had so much time lately either, and feel guilty if I just log on and don't post.
But I'm assured that doesn't matter. I'm sure we have all been in that situation at some time.
I hope you can get back to a happier life soon.

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Thinking of leaving Oct 4, 2008 11:34:19 GMT

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Post by snowowl on Oct 4, 2008 11:34:19 GMT

Karen do has Spru says and keep your membership.Like you say one day you will have your own PC and can do as you wish then.
Lots of people dont come on all the time.
I am one that has a lot of time on my hands and my PC is a life saver for me.
Pop on when you can and dont worry.

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Thinking of leaving Oct 4, 2008 18:05:54 GMT

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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2008 18:05:54 GMT

Oct 3, 2008 22:08:49 GMT Spruance said:

Just look on us as somewhere where you can drop in for a chat if you like, and don't worry about not posting. Unlike some boards I could mention your account will still be open next time you drop by.

Exactly. And that's why some of us have been members here for so long.

Karen

Just come in and say helo when you can and if you can't, we understand. Don't make a decision to leave, just don't worry if you haven't been in and posted for a while. We'll still be here if and when you get a chance to come in and say hello.

Take care
FA x

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Thinking of leaving Oct 5, 2008 10:45:22 GMT

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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2008 10:45:22 GMT

I am not a huge poster, only when i feel passionate about something, i keep an eye on the gardening bit as that is my main interest and haven't really done a lot of the social stuff, but never felt that anyone had a problem with it which is nice. So I am sure you shouldn't leave if so i'd have been turfed off months ago! ;D

Plocket Garden Guru Posts: 16,441	Thinking of leaving Oct 5, 2008 14:53:36 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Plocket on Oct 5, 2008 14:53:36 GMT Oh don't leave Karen - we need to know how you are getting on, even if you just post once in a blue moon
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Deleted Posts: 0	Thinking of leaving Oct 5, 2008 18:53:09 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2008 18:53:09 GMT Thanks all i will get on when i can. Karen x

Auricula Garden Sage I'd rather be quaffing vino surrounded by fragrant blooms - but mostly I'm weeding!! Posts: 36,606	Thinking of leaving Oct 5, 2008 22:09:43 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Auricula on Oct 5, 2008 22:09:43 GMT Glad to hear it - don't go even if you can't post
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Deleted Posts: 0	Thinking of leaving Oct 6, 2008 18:36:10 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2008 18:36:10 GMT I will get on as much as i can think ive been on more in the last few days than i have for a long time, but that could change with his shifts but i will try and get on when i can.

borderbabe Deputy Head Gardener Posts: 515	Thinking of leaving Oct 6, 2008 20:15:02 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by borderbabe on Oct 6, 2008 20:15:02 GMT Try to hand in there Karen If you leave he will have won - he;s caused enough heartache. Just pop in when you can. We'll all be here for you.
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Thinking of leaving Oct 7, 2008 8:26:55 GMT

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Post by nightowl on Oct 7, 2008 8:26:55 GMT

Noooo Karen!! Don't leave, just come on whenever you can and let us know how things are going

We'll be patiently waiting here for you, hoping for the day you can log on and tell us you've got rid of the @rs*h*le and things are on the up for you and your son

It'll happen one day Karen

, and when it does, we wanna know about it!!

Deleted Posts: 0	Thinking of leaving Oct 8, 2008 18:33:04 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2008 18:33:04 GMT I wolnt leave but will get on when i can hes away till friday evening then away till the end of next week i hope so will be on as much as i can.